(Read more: So What Does It Mean To Be Bisexual, Exactly?) “Everyone comes into their bisexuality at different times and in different ways,” says bisexual queer sex educator Lisa Finn, brand manager and queer sex educator at sex-toy emporium Babeland. Your sexuality is *not* like your love language or Myers Briggs type, so you can’t expect an online quiz to answer a question like: “Am I bisexual?”īut how do you know if you’re bisexual? There are no-tell tale signs or giveaways.